celebrating my beautiful mother

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There’s no one like my mother. No one who knows me more, whom could ever love me the way that she loves me. No one has sacrificed more for me. Her example is one of the main reasons why I am who I am. It took me a while and a lot of growing up, to truly understand her life and the love that she has given.

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This is a woman who deserves to be celebrated! She always puts everyone first and never-ever wants to burden anyone with her personal needs or for any extra attention. She’s just amazing. She feels so loved and well-cared for as it is, so every day is a blessing . . . no need to make a fuss.

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My brother and I were about to change all of that. For her 70th, we wanted to make a fuss and threw her a beautiful birthday party. A whole year has passed, and she is still thanking us and cannot believe that it was all for her!

I invited mostly family and a few of her friends to lunch at Gaetano’s Restaurant in Lakeside. Owner, Maria DiGiovanni, has been friends with my family for so many years, and her food is so delicious – just like the food that we loved at big family gatherings when I was a child. I wanted the food to be authentic and something that my family could really enjoy.

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Of course, I would take care of dessert. However, the floral arrangements were the first thing on my mind. I wanted to honor my mother with beautiful flowers everywhere. “Abudanza” came to mind. I set an appointment with my dear friend Karen at Franco’s Flowers and with my own vases, she made my dreams come true.

I had more gorgeous blossoms in Double-Star Lilies, Dahlia, Peonies, Carnations and Roses in pale pinks and ivory, placed in individual water tubes to decorate the bottom of her elevated birthday cake.

for my beautiful mother, 70th birthday, floral dessert table, via milissweets.com“Pineapple-Coconut Paradise” is her favorite cake that I make. It’s a vanilla custard cake, (that I named “Vanilla Italia”) with fresh pineapple sauce soaked in. It’s filled with a layer of Italian custard and vanilla butter cream. It’s covered with whipped cream and lots of toasted coconut. She is diabetic but once a year, she is “bad” and has a slice of this dessert.

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Besides the cake, the centerpiece of the dessert table was a mural I made with special photos from her life. There was also a small white bird at the center. The invitation and decor was all about a little vintage bird, so I added lace and used birdcages and mason jars throughout the party setting.

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It takes a special maturity (a true gift if you can receive it in-time) to understand that your loved ones are really not all about you. At the beginning of this post, “me” was mentioned several times. That’s really how I felt through childhood – that my mom was all mine. God made her just for me. It wasn’t until I was about 18, when my mom was diagnosed with cancer, that I even began to realize how significant, rich and special her life was before I ever arrived and continued to be every day thereafter. I wanted to learn all about her life and  the best fact was, that it really wasn’t about me at all. I am just some seasoning in her beautiful life.

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I had a lot of vintage, handmade table linens and used them throughout the party as well. This was a special  table I set for guests, toward the entry. I wanted them to arrive, drop off their gift, and write her a well-wish or  love note. I placed additional old photographs to view and the framed tribute that I wrote for her:

70 Years of Maria Rosaria

Inside the five-foot frame that holds this beautiful woman,

is God-given strength and courage to move mountains.

On July 12, 1943, she was pronounced dead at birth,

as the seventh child of her family. Her mother saved her life.

At the age of 13, she followed her father’s dream of coming to America.

She entered the 6th grade, not speaking a word of English.

As a high school student, she had to become the woman of the house.

She takes pride in her impeccable work ethic.

She gives all that she has, and all of her personal time to

her faith, her family and to the poor.

She was a single-mother and raised two children.

While in hardship, she worked odd jobs to be sure

her children attended Catholic school.

She overcame poverty.

She always maintained her generosity.

She has worked for Mercy/Scripps Hospital a total of 34 years.

She survived cancer.

She collects rosaries.

She misses her mother every day.

Mother Teresa and Pope John Paul II are her heroes.

She lives for the kisses she receives from her grandchildren.

We adore you, Maria Rosaria!

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This was the pretty birdcage arrangement placed at the gift/tribute table.

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I made very simple party favors. I packaged clear rock candies on a stick, with a Shabby-Chic-labeled thank you note. It was super simple and I had enough so that every guest (including children) could take one home.

for my beautiful mother, 70th birthday, floral dessert table, via milissweets.comEveryone loved the dessert table! Every single sweet vanished and guests took the time to come up and look at the mural. I made cupcakes in Double Dutch, Lemonade, Orange Dream and Tiramisu, chocolate chip cookies and I provided fresh apricots and cherries for the diabetics in our group.

The very best part of the entire day was when my mom blew out her candles. I wish I had a better camera on-hand that day, but despite the low-quality, you have to see the joy from the children and the look on my mom’s face – this moment was priceless!

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The children helped to place all 70 candles on the cake. As soon as they were lit, I had to move fast to present it to her! Thank goodness my hair was back because that was a serious flame! The children and their joy really helped to make this moment so incredibly special.

This was a day my family and especially my mom, will never forget. She’ll be 71 next weekend and I can’t wait to celebrate her sweetness and her heart of gold, all over again.

xox, Mili

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swati - February 17, 2016 - 9:39 pm

loved this post.I could feel your mom’s happiness through your words.

sweetsbymili@gmail.com - April 4, 2016 - 10:03 pm

I’m just now seeing your note Swati. Thank you! Take care, Mili

orange-cranberry king cake

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I’m sharing my spin on King Cake. My version is delicious and fluffy, made with one of my favorite items to bake with: orange zest. Cranberry glaze is folded into the dough, taking this tradition over the top!

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My kids and I have loved making this traditional sweet bread together for the last few years. This time, I’m sharing my recipe and a couple different ways to prepare this delightful treat, including the use of a Bundt pan, which is now my favorite method.

Families all over the world enjoy King Cake to either celebrate the Epiphany, (when the three kings visited baby Jesus, on January 6) or the day before Lent begins. (Lent is the 40 days of sacrifice before Easter Sunday.) Either way, there should be a toy baby (symbolizing baby Jesus) found inside the cake. All of this fun started in 12th century France. Today you’ll find the cakes typically decorated with sprinklings of yellow, purple and green. This year, I went GOLD for our pre-Lent celebration.

This is a super easy recipe. You just need to have some time on your hands. Set aside 4 hours for rising and bake time. Trust me. Like most wonderful things in your life, it’s worth the extra love and time. I hope you’ll try to make this once. You’ll love it so much that I’m sure you’ll want to make it every year from now on! Let’s do this. . .

Mili’s Sweets Orange-Cranberry King Cake Recipe

Here’s what you’ll need for the dough:

In a large bowl: 2 cups all purpose flour

in a small bowl: 2 cups all purpose flour with 1 teaspoon iodized salt

1 packet or 2 1/4 teaspoons active dry yeast

1/4 cup water

1/2 cup fat free milk

1/2 cup heavy whipping cream

3 extra large eggs (at room temperature – you can run them under warm water)

2 sticks (1 cup) salted butter, softened

1/2 cup granulated sugar

zest of one large orange

1 egg white (for the wash before baking)

Here’s what you’ll need for the cranberry glaze, to fold inside the dough:

1/2 cup freshly squeezed orange juice (from the orange zested for the dough)

1/2 cup dried cranberries

1/2 cup powdered sugar

3/4 cup brown sugar

1 teaspoon cinnamon

1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract

extra tools: plastic pastry scraper, metal pastry cutter, Bundt pan, saucepan, cookie sheet, offset spatula

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Here’s what you’ll do:

Start by scalding the milk. Put the 1/2 cup of fat free milk and 1/2 cup of heavy whipping cream in a saucepan and heat until you see small bubbles forming on the edge. Remove from heat.

While the milk cools, prepare to activate the dry yeast. In a cup, warm 1/4 cup of water in the microwave for 10 seconds. Add the contents of the packet and and stir to dissolve. Allow to active. In 10 minutes, both the yeast and the milk will be ready, so that you can begin preparing the dough.

Next, in a standing mixer, with a paddle attachment, beat the butter until it covers the bottom of the bowl. Add the 1/2 cup of granulated sugar and then the eggs, one at a time. Beat it for about 20 seconds. The end result will look like super-fluffy scrambled eggs.

Now you’re ready to put the pieces of the dough together. In the large bowl you’ve prepared with the 2 cups of flour, make a well in the center. Add the mixture of activated yeast, then the warm milk. Mix together with your hands or a plastic pastry scraper. Once incorporated, add the butter-sugar-egg mixture and completely combine.

Cover the bowl with plastic wrap and place it in a cold oven for an hour and a half.

Here’s what the process looks like:

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The next step is to add the 2 cups of flour and 1 teaspoon of salt that you have already set aside in a small bowl. Mix this in with the use of your pastry scraper. Then add the zest of one large orange.

Once the orange zest is incorporated, cover the bowl with a cloth. Return it to your cold oven and allow it to rise for an additional hour.

While your dough is enjoying it’s second-rise, prepare the cranberry glaze that will be folded in before it’s baked.

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Here’s how to make the cranberry glaze:

Squeeze out all of the juice from the large orange you used to flavor the dough. It should give you about 1/2 cup. If you don’t have 1/2 cup of juice, make up the difference with either more orange juice or water.

In a saucepan, over medium heat, stir juice, 3/4 cup brown sugar, 1/2 cup powdered sugar and 1 teaspoon cinnamon. Once smooth, with the sugars dissolved, add the 1/2 cup dried cranberries and pure vanilla extract. Stir and remove from heat.

The glaze will be cooled and ready to use, once your dough is ready.

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This recipe will make two King Cakes. (One to share and one to keep. Or two to share. xox) When the dough is ready, use a pastry cutter to divide it.

I’m sharing two different ways to prepare to bake the dough. There’s the typical way, with a cookie sheet and then there’s a method I tried for the first time, using a Bundt pan. (Made sense to me!) Turns out using the Bundt is my favorite way to prepare this cake.

For the Bundt pan method: Spray and flour the pan so that it is prepared for the dough.

For the typical method: Place parchment paper or a silpat mat over the cookie sheet/pan.

orange-cranberry King Cake - recipe and how-to via milissweets.comPlace 1/2 of the dough on a clean, flat surface, dusted with a liberal amount of flour.

Assemble the piece of dough together and lay flat.

Spoon the cranberry glaze over the dough. Then, fold it over once. Gently twist and lengthen the dough so that you can form a circle.

* Please note that the dough should be handled as little as possible and there is no need to kneed.

Place the twisted dough in either the Bundt pan or at the center of the prepared cookie sheet.

Sprinkle it with a light dusting of flour at the top and sides. Believe it or not, it’s going to rise again!

Cover with a cloth, and return it to your cold oven for one additional, and final hour.

Here’s a peek at  the process when using a Bundt pan:

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When the dough is in the “after rise” stage, you can finally turn your oven on!

(This is one of the reasons why patience is a virtue.)

Preheat your oven to 325 degrees.

This is the time I put the in the baby! When I make the cake for my family, there are at least 3 babies, but typically you’ll place just one plastic toy in the cake.  I like to do my teeth a favor, and I place the baby at the very bottom of my baking-pan, so that I can spot the bottom when I eat my slice. This is best, since digging around in your cake doesn’t seem like the proper thing to do.

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Prepare an egg wash, by whisking an egg white. Brush it onto the top of the dough.

Bake for 30-35 minutes.

Here’s the process when using the cookie sheet method:

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You can see from the examples, that you’ll have a bigger cake with the cookie sheet method. It will both rise and spread. I prefer it to rise rather than spread, to have a more controlled size. (Yes. I have issues.) However, moving the cake from the cookie sheet is a lot easier. You’ll have to allow the cake to completely cool, and use an offset spatula to loosen all of the edges, to remove the cake from the Bundt pan. Then, place a plate under it, hold the two together and turn it upside down to remove.

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Once the cake is cooled, you’ll want to ice it. You can make royal icing or do what I do, by making a batch of vanilla butter cream frosting and melting it a bit in the microwave. I use a plastic sandwich bag as my piping bag, cut a corner for my “tip,” and coat the top in a back and forth motion. This is the moment you’ll want to have your sprinkles on-hand.

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This is such a special treat and I’m glad it’s part of our family’s pre-Lent tradition.

Enjoy!

xox

sweet abundance

sweet abundance - wedding desserts set and catered by Mili - www.milissweets.comTina was a bride after my own heart! For her wedding reception, she asked me to cater “abudanza.” It Italian, it means abundance – when guests have a wonderful and overwhelming amount to choose from and enjoy. It’s a cultural way of showing love for your guests, since so much time and care goes in to preparing each treat. I loved her excitement, to provide something beyond a slice of wedding cake.

Set at the gorgeous Humphrey’s Estate in Temecula, California, I made everything her and her groom’s hearts desired, on their beautiful wedding day, last June.

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First on Tina’s list were artisan truffles. I made both Salted Caramel and Mexican Hot Cocoa.

Then there were individual servings of Creme Brulee, topped with a fresh raspberry. She also ordered both cream puffs and eclairs.

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What’s the difference? The difference between cream puffs and eclairs is pretty simple. Both are made with from-scratch Choux Pastry. (It took me quite a while to master making these. My husband actually taught me!) I choose to fill cream puffs with rich whipped cream and top them with a sprinkling of powdered sugar. I fill eclairs with my version of Italian custard and drizzle them with ganache.

She wanted a “pop” or sweets on a stick. Since I don’t make cake pops, she went with my alternative, cookie pops, in both Snickerdoodle and Coconut Dream.

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She topped off her order with an assortment of mini cupcakes in Very Strawberry, S’mores and Lemonade. Believe it or not, she had a wedding cake as well! It was on a separate table, made by another vendor.

I was happy to set the desserts indoors, to save them from the outside elements on a hot, June afternoon. The setting was beautiful. With vintage wallpaper and a antique cabinet as my backdrop, all the table needed was her lovely birdcage as a centerpiece and clean/basic plating, graced with the assortment.

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One of the sweetest parts about working with Tina is that we met by total chance.

I had an appointment to meet a potential client at a Starbucks for a tasting and consultation and she never showed. After waiting long enough and realizing I was stood-up*, with cupcakes in hand, I offered them to a sweet couple at a table nearby, caring for a young boy. I explained my situation and asked if they would like to have the cupcakes, thinking nothing at all of it and glad that someone would enjoy them.

Well, the woman whom I offered them to worked with Tina. She told her the story after tasting my cupcakes and referred me. It always surprises and amazes me, what a simple act of kindness, and reaching out to a perfect stranger can do. There’s never a loss when things don’t work out the way you first plan. It’s better to be completely open to what’s ahead since there’s always something even better waiting for you to enjoy.

This wedding is on my list as one of my favorites of my dessert catering career. I’m so glad that I was able to be a small part of this special day.

* Oh, and by the way, that was the only time I was ever stood-up when it came to cupcakes!

xox

 

 

Italian hands make frittelle: traditional fry-bread (and pizza dough)

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This is my one of my favorite recipe posts of all time. Here, I document my mom making one of my all-time favorite Italian treats, typically enjoyed on Christmas Eve and on special occasions: frittelle.

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There are many versions of frittelle. Most of them found and scattered all over Italy are small and served as a donut or a fritter. This is the original. The tiny town of Tricarico, Italy, where my mom was born and raised, is known for inventing this food which is a fry-bread and peasant-food, made as the best that could be done to celebrate on Christmas Eve for many families. It was so delicious that it caught on and neighboring towns would develop their own takes on the treat. Generations of Italians have made their own versions of frittelle, based on where and how their family was raised.

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Traditionally, most everyone would enjoy them filled with a dried/cured Provolone cheese (the convenience of refrigeration was not always around) that was cut into cubes and would melt while being fried. This is how my Nonna made them. Frittelles are also commonly served without any filling. Having them as a sweet-dessert was not really an option. In my mom’s hometown, many years ago, sugar was considered a luxury-item to most families. Because of my grandmother’s profession as a doctor, my mom’s family of eight was fortunate to have enjoyed sugar. I am proud to tell you that they shared their sugar and everything else that they had.

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We are not going to miss out on the opportunity to make some dessert-frittelles! We have modified a few details for our recipe-options, substituting the dried Provolone for shredded Mozzarella cheese. Unfilled will always be an amazing option. And then there are the dessert versions, with freshly-fried frittelles, dipped into sugar or cinnamon-sugar.

Obviously, some details of how to make this recipe have been updated and simplified, so that you are able to conveniently heat the water for the dough preparation with the use of a microwave, and use the many other convenient tools, available in our modern kitchens.

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The air in the dough and the texture of the bread makes it taste like a delicious, fluffy, warm pillow. There is no way to not be satisfied with such a generous serving of fried-deliciousness. Every time I see them, smell them or pull one apart, it takes me back to some of the happiest days and memories of my childhood.  It is a very good thing!

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The recipe is actually very simple, but it will take some time for me to master bread dough the way my mom has. The way she prepares it blows my mind! Her hands are so fast, that my camera could barely keep up. I had to write down her notes quickly too. When hands have mastered a craft and are this skilled, there is no measuring or referring to recipes. Therefore, if I don’t write down her work, it might one day, be lost.

With that, I hope you can save and share this recipe!

Nonna’s Traditional Frittelle Recipe by Mili’s Sweets

(We also use this recipe to make pizza dough)

Here’s what you’ll need:

1 and 3/4 cup water, heated

4 cups all purpose flour

1/2 cup of flour, reserved for dusting

2 teaspoons salt

1 tablespoon sugar

1 cup water, heated

1 packet dry active yeast, or 2 and 1/4 teaspoons of dry active yeast

canola oil for frying

optional ingredients: shredded mozzarella cheese, granulated sugar, or a cinnamon-sugar mixture

Here’s what you’ll do:

First, prepare the 1 and 3/4 cup of water by heating it in the microwave for 2 minutes. Set aside.

Next, prepare the yeast.

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How to prepare yeast for making bread-recipes:

In a glass container, measure one cup of water. Heat in the microwave for 40 seconds. Stir in the dry active yeast and the 1 tablespoon of sugar. Cover for 10 minutes. The yeast will have activated and will be ready to use.

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Now it is time to get to work and knead the dough by-hand. In a large bowl, place the 4 cups of flour and create a well in the center. Pour in the activated yeast-water mixture and pour on the salt.

Watch my mom’s hands. I had to really edit down the photos so that you can see how she puts it together. After the well is filled, she brings her hands around to edge to let flour into the center. She moves her one hand in and out to get more flour into the center, a little at a time. Once all of the flour is combined into the moisture, she uses a little of the 1 and 3/4 cup of water that was heated and set aside, to dip in her hand and add the moisture. Next, she uses both hands. Her hands move up and down and “squish and squash” in the dough. It is sticky. She lifts the dough ball and takes a scoop of water with her hand, to grab the flour that is at the bottom of the bowl. With that, she works-in all of the dough together.

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She takes the access dough from her hands and then gets a sprinkling of flour from the reserve that was set aside for dusting. She dries her hands with the flour as well. As tradition, she says a prayer over the dough and makes a sign-of-the-cross over the kneaded dough –  just the way her mother did and generations before her have done. It is beautiful.

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Now it is time to cover the dough and allow it to rise.

She covers the dough with a homemade blanket that she always uses. You can use a large dishcloth. Completely cover the bowl and keep in a dry, warm place. Allow to sit, untouched for one hour. Please set a timer so that you don’t forget.

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When the one hour is up, you will have a beautifully-risen bread dough that is ready to use.

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If you are ready to go, it’s time to prepare frittelle! Make a prep-area on a table to work on the individual servings of dough. We put down some parchment paper. Cut the dough into small pieces, that fit into the palm of your hand.

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Take the piece and stretch it so that it’s a nice and flat, with no holes but a good amount of light coming in without breaking.

While this process is happening, you will want to prepare the oil in a pan so that it can get hot enough to properly fry the bread. In a pan, heat the oil. We use canola oil. The amount of oil you need, will depend on the size of pan you use. Our oil goes up to the little knobs in the pan. I’d say between 1/2″ and 1″ up, depending on the mood we are in. You will know what is best for you. When you are frying most any food, a trick to being successful, is to make sure that it has the opportunity to float. Set the stove to medium-heat.

Now it is time to fill (or not fill) and fold the pieces of dough.

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We are going to start with dessert-versions of frittelle, so they will not be filled.

Once you have the dough flattened, fold it over to make a kind of taco. Seal the edges closed with your finger tips.

When the oil in the pan has reached 350 degrees, you can start to fry the bread. Be prepared since this process will go quickly. You will want to have an area to dry and cool the frittelle and have a pair of tongs handy, to flip the pieces.

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You can flip the dough over and over, until it has become golden brown and is floating in the oil. I cannot give you an exact time since it depends on the quality and make of the pan you are using. For the first try or two, you will want to eyeball-it. They can be done frying in as little as two minutes.  Here is what unfilled dough looks like, after it is fried. It is not as round as filled frittelle, but there should always be a lot of air and texture on the inside.

frittelle: traditional Italian fry-bread - recipe and how-to via milissweets.com - sugar, cinnamon and sugar and cheeseIf you are dipping into sugar or cinnamon-sugar, have a bowl prepared and ready. The best result for a sweet frittelle is to cover them when they are still hot and the oil is still warm on the bread.

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One of the most beautiful details of frittelle is the light that shines through from the parts of the dough that have been pulled to the point of almost-breaking.

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It is a skill and a gift to have the confidence to stretch the dough before it breaks. If it does break, do not worry. You can patch it back together with your fingers before frying.

Here is how to fill them, if you want to make a more traditional, savory version, with cheese:

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Sprinkle one side with cheese. Fold over and lightly pinch the edges closed. You do not want the cheese to come through into the oil since it will burn. It will still taste good, but it won’t be pretty.

I really hope you enjoy this recipe as much as my family does!

It is so important to me, that my family can hold on to traditions that I was raised with, so that they continue to thrive in my home and in my heart. I believe it is important for any family to continue the legacy of their culture(s).  I honestly cannot imagine my world without the special foods and traditions that have helped to shape my life.

Being blessed with my mom living in our home means that my kids and I can learn about the food she has made most of her life. We can document it and always have it.  The best part is, she loves to share how she does it. It brings her joy and another opportunity to be bossy. I love my mom so very much and I’m actually happy when she tells me to do something. It wasn’t always that way, but it has been for a very long time now. Her grandchildren totally get it and love every minute of her sharing with us as well.

xox

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love first

I’m reflecting on a special day this coming week, when 15 years ago, (December 29, 2000), my husband asked me to marry him.

Here we were, just moments before he popped the big question in Florence, Italy. There was absolutely no hesitation at all. I was so excited to say yes, and from that moment on, to know that we would be our future for the rest of our lives, was like a dream come true. It still is.
us

This coming year, I’ll celebrate literally spending half of my life with this guy – my other half, the love of my life and my best friend. It’s crazy to think that we will have been together for 20 years! It’s even more awesome to imagine the next 20, 30 and 40. When God put us together He answered many prayers. My mom, my Nonna and I, are thankful.

So, what do I have to show for all of this invested time?

Love has been the true umbrella for our day-to-day life, but so much is involved with real love.

Laughter. We have a ton of laugh-lines. We both grew up with something in common: we use laughter as a remedy for dealing with hardship. We have thrived because we are full of joy. Our home is typically full of laughter too. Since the day I met this guy, I was laughing with him. He was my friend since day one and he will be my friend forever.

Here we were, laughing as usual, when our friend took photos of us for our 10th wedding anniversary. For more on this session from Love, Jen Photography and to take a peek at our wedding cake, please see my past story: My First Wedding Cake, 10 Years Later.

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Forgiveness. We have never mad at one another for longer than a few hours. We let it out and then we move on. We don’t argue often and we always keep it real. We love one another, trust one another, and depend on one another way too much to allow anything to stand in the way of our bond.

Trust. We are very flexible and accommodating. We go out of our way to support one another for what we individually need to do or simply want to do. There’s no resentment or nagging. It takes maturity and love and it’s easy since we are both devoted to the team.

Determination. We are two extremely determined and hard working individuals. We are giving of ourselves and care a lot. It’s hard for us to hang around those who are not like us in this way because determination takes a lot of precious, personal time.

Life is very demanding and exhausting. It’s amazing to know that we can come home (to our own sanctuary) where we lay our heads down in peace, together. I’m so thankful that we have each another to hold everything down.

I put my faith and my role and mom and wife at the center of all that I do. Despite the hustle and bustle of life and work, my husband and I prioritize to be an example. We do small but important thing like sit down together to have dinner every night. We pray before each meal (even if we’re in public) and we do everything it takes to raise our children to be the incredible people they already are.

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Here are our sweethearts on Christmas Day, 2015 (yesterday). My stepdaughter will graduate from UCLA in the Spring. We have a daughter in middle school and little-man is in elementary. How could we not love them and be proud of them when they are our life’s work? Never have I been given a better and more rewarding job than to love them and to be their mom. After all of these years, I still can’t even believe that we have such gifts!

At the end of the day, truly living life is about loving life, even when it’s difficult.

Here’s to another year of putting love first.

Best wishes to you and yours in 2016.

xox, Mili